tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4955247165501429698.post7087870349968955948..comments2023-10-23T13:05:06.346-04:00Comments on The World According to KC: Lasting LoveAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01218429214724604029noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4955247165501429698.post-434759326022298172011-12-03T08:22:05.687-05:002011-12-03T08:22:05.687-05:00The short answer is...I don't know. Where does...The short answer is...I don't know. Where does all the love go? Sometimes it becomes hate. Sometimes it just seems to vanish into thin air. I would like to think that loving someone (friend or BF) makes you a better, more human person. Even when the love goes, the memory of love makes us more human.MuMuGBhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07669453005443249990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4955247165501429698.post-81128490559459432042011-11-30T16:17:54.248-05:002011-11-30T16:17:54.248-05:00I've gotten confused myself about feeling love...I've gotten confused myself about feeling love and then not feeling it or feeling it for more than one and many other different possibilities or combinations. Since it could get very confusing for me, I've chosen to go back the Physics. Love is Energy, and accdg to the Law of Conservation of Energy, energy does not disappear, it merely gets transformed. So yes, I prefer to think that love does last forever and although you may not feel it for the same person, it is there in your life expressed towards another or expressed in a different way. I guess the same is true for the pain and anger you feel. They are energies and they will be transformed, hopefully sooner than later. *hugs*Joy Page Manuelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00869379846706830802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4955247165501429698.post-53134520489865639572011-11-30T13:11:48.626-05:002011-11-30T13:11:48.626-05:00Love has different faces and the end of love has d...Love has different faces and the end of love has different reactions. After a major deception such as yours, it can swing in the opposite direction. Or seem to explode and disappear, or turn into something else - some emotion that isn't love anymore but is related, or become a feeling that retains the vestiges of love but is far too damaged by whatever happened to become whole again. <br><br>One big love in my life early on (and the word "love" still sticks in my gullet) turned into such hate that it took me thirty years to get over it - if I ever did. My really great love lasted through break ups, betrayals, and trials to the end of (his) life and beyond. Why one and not the other? Who can say where and how love ends, if it ever really does, and how it affects us in the future. All I can tell you is something you already know: the sharp edges smooth with time and while the hurt may never go away completely, at least it will diminish and heal, even if it leaves a scar.Penelope J.http://donthangupbook.com/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4955247165501429698.post-71875947332293352222011-11-30T08:33:50.156-05:002011-11-30T08:33:50.156-05:00I have been to that place. Questioning the lies. ...I have been to that place. Questioning the lies. What was true and what wasn't. And did he truly love me? Or was that a lie too? And why the fuck did I love him? I know for certain I loved him even though he truly didn't deserve me. I guess in the end that's all that matters. Give your heart time. It will heal. Maybe you'll forgive, maybe not, but you'll never forget. Love is real, even when it's real fucked up!Marie from Rock The Kasbahhttp://www.rockthekasbahafrica.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4955247165501429698.post-69748447866243354862011-11-30T07:44:06.064-05:002011-11-30T07:44:06.064-05:00xo G...you said it all...and as for love lasting.....xo G...you said it all...and as for love lasting...I think that it sometimes changes form...love starts out blind, and if you begin to see things differently, perhaps it is still love, with new eyes? I don't know...I just wonder.<br><br>hugs darling girl...cathhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02829421153829081513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4955247165501429698.post-72592905571575302892011-11-30T05:41:48.045-05:002011-11-30T05:41:48.045-05:00Excellent question. I always used to be a romantic...Excellent question. I always used to be a romantic believing that once one found love it would be true love and forever...but as I grew older I started to realise that one can have many loves, and that many of peoples loves don't last forever. This does sadden me as deep down I so still yearn for the fairy tale.Janinehttp://reflectionsfromaredhead.comnoreply@blogger.com